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Above are photos taken by me. I run a photography business called T.Stern Photography, that's been around for 2 years. I've taken pictures at weddings, night events, birthdays, and fashion models. For booking information, check out my myspace page at www.myspace.com/tsternphotograhy. I know you got what it takes!

Note: I edit pictures too, so if you have photos that need to be edited, feel free to ask me and I will do for you..

Black men who date white women

Is it me or is our black men dating white women like the black woman doesn't exist anymore? I was in Frisco yesterday and that was like all I saw.. Don't get me wrong, there's nothing  wrong with dating outside of your race, its just that I feel like black men can't handle black woman so they look outside their race to find someone whose not going to talk back to them. I think black men need to drop their ego one day and listen for once what the black woman has to offer. We are strong women who are opinionated, independent and loyal, yet the black men can't see that. Or maybe they can... Black men always tend to date outside their race, yet at the end they want to marry a black woman. Why is this so? Can a black man please tell me what it is that drive you away from the black woman? 

I know I'm late but this book is fantastic!!

Hey people!

So I've been reading this book called, "The Sex Chronicles", by ZANE and mane that book is off the hook. I didn't know sex could get that wild. My imagination has expanded ever since I read " "Addicted", lol but damn I'm in love with just the first few pages in the beginning of the chapter. Anyways, this blog is about what goes on in my mind when my head is in the books. Every time I read a book that talks about sex, lies, betrayal, killings, drugs, and lovers, my views of the world change. For instance, I ride BART almost everyday, and every single time I feel like someone at any given time will pull out a gun and hold people hostile on the train. I always think of what ways could I possibly escape.. lol I know that was too much information but this is what goes on in my mind. Crazy stuff like that happen in movies, books, and real life which have a strong influence on why I think the way I do. Books and movies also influence the way I feel about men. Like whomever guy I chose to talk to has to be equivalent to the guys in the book. Like is it me, when a Arthur describe a man as tall, with smooth chocolate skin, light brown bedroom eyes, with potential pussy eating lips, your melting as you can only imagine how a guy like that would look like in real life. I'm a geek/freak I must admit but man only if I could see what type of men ZANE be talking about in the "Sex Chronicles."Well the moral of my story is that I'm a human who has the biggest imagination all because a book. If people could live their lives like the people in these books then this world would be such a better place.. LOL jk, thats not my message...

I need your help surfers

Hey Yall!

So I've been single for about a year now, and what I'm about to say is going to get deep. Why is it so hard to find good men? Every single guy that I've dated while single, has been either weird in a sense where I couldn't handle it, the sex was bad, too aggressive, mentally challenged (lol jk), not sensitive to my feelings, and so on. When I first meet someone, I feel like he's going to be the one for me and I slowly start catching feelings for that person, but when that nigga don't return my calls nor text back in a timely manner, it seems to upset me. Yet the ones who do pay attention to me are the ones I really ignore. Why is this so? I must admit, I do have a conservative taste (I am a cancer) and expect a lot from a guy, but guys never seem to be persistent with me. Is it me? Having bad experience with so many guys make me lose hope, trust me it's not a good feeling. I'm not looking for a perfect guy, but I am looking for a guy who is right for me. Like we have to be compatible because I am a firm believer in astrology. I know yall probably thinking that it's stupid to choose a guy based on his sign, but I am here to tell you that this astrology stuff really work.  In conclusion we all have flaws but damn why do I have to see the flaws from a person in the beginning while I'm trying to get to know whomever the guy is? Should I stop looking and just wait till he finds me?