Black men who date white women

Is it me or is our black men dating white women like the black woman doesn't exist anymore? I was in Frisco yesterday and that was like all I saw.. Don't get me wrong, there's nothing  wrong with dating outside of your race, its just that I feel like black men can't handle black woman so they look outside their race to find someone whose not going to talk back to them. I think black men need to drop their ego one day and listen for once what the black woman has to offer. We are strong women who are opinionated, independent and loyal, yet the black men can't see that. Or maybe they can... Black men always tend to date outside their race, yet at the end they want to marry a black woman. Why is this so? Can a black man please tell me what it is that drive you away from the black woman?